This is my first article of 2015 and I wanted to start off on a very positive note. What does it take to be a great life partner? It takes a lot of effort. It takes a lot of patience. Apart from the basics, it requires a lot of more important things that will be listed here that should be found in you too, because my fans are amazing individuals. This is going to be a self-assessment, if you don't see eye to eye with any part of this article, you need to work on that part because it's very vital if you want true love in your life. Let's begin.
9. You're selfish in a good way
Loving yourself isn't considered selfish, it's actually very healthy and normal to love yourself. It's necessary that you completely recognize your abilities and accept who you are as a person and love that person before you can love someone else. I don't believe in relationships where people forget themselves and just think of their partners, your relationship isn't supposed to make you forget about the most important person in your life - YOU! A healthy relationship is meant to groom you as an individual and enhance your personality, not make you lose track of it. So go ahead, be selfish, love yourself completely, it's a very attractive feature when you know how to represent yourself.
8. You're completely self-aware
This extends my previous point, being self-aware. Be someone who is completely aware of their flaws, their capabilities, their strengths and weaknesses. Be someone who knows what they want, because that's how you'll get amazing at big decisions and that's what attracts people towards you. Accept your flaws happily, because they're your flaws, there's perfection in your flaws as well as your strengths, because your flaws are also a part of who you are, don't be someone who shuns their weaknesses and tries to be someone they're not.
7. You don't want to fix anyone
You're someone who's very kind and open minded. You're someone who accepts people wholeheartedly and with open arms, despite of their flaws. You're someone who doesn't try to change people merely for your own benefits. You're someone who tells people to be who they want to be in life because that's how they'll excel in life. You're someone who doesn't judge people based on what they do or who they are, because you know you can't judge anyone, because you know you're also human and you're also not perfect. You are going to keep your partner very happy.
6. You don't want anyone to fix you
Don't be the person who waits for others to fix them. Relationships aren't made to fix anyone's life, they're meant to make them better, they're meant to harness the happiness that already existed in those people's lives and increase that happiness. If you expect your relationship to bring happiness in your sad life, you're going to have a bad time and probably go through a lot of trauma because of it too. Because not only are you going to drag someone else into your life, you're going to make them sad in the process with you. So, just don't be that person. Before committing to anyone, make sure you have a firm grip over your life and everything around it. - Continue reading on the next page