You met this person, got to know them better and realized that they’re the perfect catch! They have a nice job, dress up pretty well and are incredibly caring towards everyone around them. But the truth is, no matter how hard you try to be happy with them or try to convince yourself that you’ve found an amazing partner, you know in your heart that you’re just not that into them. In all this time that you’ve stayed together, you’ve never once felt an uncontrollable desire for them, and you never even felt that spark, the one that all the movies and books keep talking about.

If you’re unsure about your feelings towards the person you’re dating, the following points can help reaffirm that he/she is not the one for you.

  1. You can’t help but feel a little annoyed when your cell phone beeps and it’s a text from them

Getting a text from a person you really like actually has the potential to brighten up your day, so you wonder what the problem is when every text from your current partner just makes you roll your eyes and feel a bit annoyed.