We all have, in our minds, a caricature of a perfect partner. We all prioritise different things, for some they might be looks, for others it might be their sense of humour, but based on what we think we want in life, we decide to try and find our partners on that basis. Again, the key words here are – What we think we want!
There is a huge difference in what we need and what we want, the two could be completely different things. We push for things that we think we need but are left confused and disappointed even once we have achieved them.
Whereas someone you deserve and someone you truly need in your life is that one person that will magically help you out in balancing everything in your life. Now, I know how much I emphasise on thinking realistically and not over fantasising your relationship but this is one thing where I use the word – Magic.
Your perfect one will be a magical fit in your life, they will be a complete surprise and when you finally realise that they are the one for you, you will also realise what kind of partner you needed in your life.
Here are a few things that will help you distinguish between the real deal or the person you deserve and the self-declared-caricature or someone not meant to be!
1. The person you deserve will always, unspokenly, make you feel like you did something great in life that fate brought them into your lives
You know like those deals that are too good to be true and you just don’t buy them because you are like ‘that’s just impossible!’? Well, that is exactly how you feel when you will find the person you deserve, you will feel like you haven’t done enough in life to actually deserve them. A sudden rush of thankfulness and humility, that’s what you will feel when you have gotten what you deserve.