A young man went to visit his mother; he wanted some decent advice about women. He asked her what s perfect woman would be like. She told her son to concentrate on being a perfect man, finding a perfect woman wouldn’t be hard. Her answer was simple, but it had a very deep meaning. It’s not difficult to find the girl of your dreams if you set yourself straight. I know, not everyone would be lucky the way I was, but I have seen most men happily settle down, when they correct the error in their ways.
I am not very proud of it but I have been with many women, none of the relationships seemed to work out for me. I seriously thought that, all the decent girls were gone. I knew I was wrong when I realized that I was dating for all the wrong reasons. I was dating to have a good time with good people. The real purpose to date someone should be to find your soulmate! I always wanted ‘love, to be love’. Love and physical attraction are two different things and should be dealt with that way.
The girl of my dreams wasn’t a sexy hot blond but she was a kind human, she always had this warm smile on her lips, she was compassionate and her qualities made her the hottest girl on earth, well, at least for me. To be honest I was kind of a jerk, I realised the error in my ways when the girl of my dreams turned me down. The refusal came as a huge blow to my confidence and I couldn’t figure out what was wrong. I liked her so much, I was good looking and funny, what I failed to realise was the fact that you can only charm a girl with looks and jokes for a few days. In the long run, you need stability of mind and soul and that’s exactly what most women are looking for. I am making a list of things that I changed about myself to win my lady's heart.
Be respectful and kind towards people
It’s not about respecting this one person you like, it’s about respecting everyone. I knew respect is the most important thing in a relationship, so I started to respect other human beings around me. I tried to help people out if I could. It made me feel more of a man, when people around me would appreciate me for my kind habits.