How I Finally Convinced Myself That Love Isn't Enough

Kaetlyn Summers Posted a year ago
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I know what you're thinking, isn't love all that you need to pull through in life? Isn't love the light at the end of the tunnel, which keeps us going? How can anyone convince themselves that love isn't enough? Before I tell you how I finally arrived at this conclusion, let me tell you a little bit about myself. I'm not a pessimist nor have I been any more unlucky in love as any of you. I'm just the same, but with a different idea.

Your definition of love isn't the same as someone else's definition of love because you two aren't in the same situation. You aren't bounded by some fraternity when you enter a relationship. The whole idea of that single friend being left out from the "group" is literally nothing more than just an idea. The truth is that the circumstances which surround your relationship cannot be completely mirrored by someone else's.

Attraction can often be mistaken for love. The truth is that none of us are really clear on the idea of love because of the varying definitions.

You'll feel butterflies fluttering in your stomach.

You'll realise that you can finally be yourself and achieve all that you've wanted.

You’ll feel secure.

You can follow any one of these and think that you've fallen in love. When in reality, you're merely attracted to the person. Love is so much more than a feeling. It's honestly a collection of different feelings such as; respect, care and trust. - Continue reading on next page