If He Doesn’t Do These 9 Things, He’s Not Your Forever Person

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Is he not your forever person?

Finding “The One” can be such a difficult task. There are so many variables that go into finding the perfect person to spend the rest of our lives in love with. The timing and the chemistry has to be perfect in order for relationships to work out. And even then, it’s not always a guaranteed thing. Relationships require a lot work, but they are made easier when you have a partner who is willing to work together with you ensure that your love never dies down.

That’s why love tends to be a system of trial and error. We expose ourselves to as many different kinds of people that we possibly can, and we also engage in a process of self-discovery about the things we like and don’t like in people. In the end, we should come out with a good understanding of what we want out of our partners and our relationships. For a lot of people, figuring things out can be quite difficult. They don’t know whether the relationship they are in is one that actually has potential for going all the way, or whether they should just cut their losses and call it quits.

One thing is for sure, if you’re dating a guy that has the potential to be the man of your life forever, then you have to fight to keep him in your life. So how do you know if the man who you’re dating is that kind of guy worth fighting for? Keep watch for these signs.

1. Talk about future relationship plans.

If a man isn’t afraid to discuss the future with you, then that means he’s already entertained the thought of having you in his future. He’s not just fooling around with you and he’s seriously considering settling down with you for the rest of his life. It means he’s open to having you as a life partner. It also means that he’s mature enough to know that planning is always important.

2. Be your support system when you’re down.

Not everyone is perfect and you will have your fair share of failures and trials. That’s why it’s important for us to have people around us who love us and are willing to help lift us up when we’re down. If he serves as your number one support system whenever you’re feeling vulnerable, then he’s definitely a man worth keeping.

3. Be his true and authentic self when you’re together.

He has no problems letting his true colors shine whenever he’s with you because he is confident enough to know that you will accept him regardless. He also doesn’t ever want to keep you in the dark about who he really is as a person because he respects you enough to never conceal anything from you. - Continue reading on the next page