If he only texts you after midnight, do not answer him.
It doesn’t matter what emoji he used. It doesn’t matter how much he pleaded. It doesn’t matter how many sweet little dialogues he came up with just to try to convince you that he’s worth your time. And it doesn’t matter if he keeps calling you his ‘baby’ or ‘darling’ or ‘the only girl for me’ because he only decided to text you when the sun came down, and when there was no one around to question him for his actions. He called you after midnight when he didn’t really need to share a meaningful conversation with you or even look you in the eye for more than a minute.
If he only texts you after midnight, do not grant him even a moment of your time.
Open up his message and leave him with a blue tick on Whatsapp, a ‘seen’ on Facebook, and an unanswered text. Just do not give him the satisfaction of replying back. If he wanted to actually talk, he would be with you at midnight instead of realizing, just as the clock ticks 12, that you’re on his mind. Because a girl who gets a text at midnight is simply an afterthought, a passing feeling, a distraction maybe! You deserve to have a guy’s full attention at any hour of the day, not just when he’s done with the rest of the world.
If he only texts you after midnight, turn your phone off.
Place it upside down. Leave it in another room. Put it on silent mode. Or simply take the decision of staying away from technology for the next 7 hours or so. Just take away his ability of crawling into your mind from that stupid screen! The only control he has over you comes from his ability to communicate- so break that control. Cut off all communication. Refuse to let him affect you. Get back the power he’s trying to steal from you and place that power in your own hands by destroying all ties with him. - Continue reading on next page