If he truly loved you, he would want you to fulfill every single one of your passions and dreams. He would encourage you to take your dream job even if it means you won’t be able to spend as much time with him anymore. If he truly loved you, he wouldn’t continue playing all these mind games. If he truly loved you, he wouldn’t pressurize you into acting in a specific way or presenting a certain image to the world.
If he truly loved you, he would hope to spend his time with you, even on the days when sex is not part of the options. He would come to your place with some hot soup and medicines just to take care of you when you’re sick. He would leave all his work and come running to your side when he knows you’re having a bad day. If you’re stuck with work and all you have time for is a quick hug and a coffee break, he would be more than happy to come. When you’re missing your friends and haven’t seen them for a while, he would plan a hangout for you all on his own. Meeting you was never about sex for him. Meeting you was only about meeting you.
If he truly loved you, he wouldn’t continue playing all these mind games. He wouldn’t keep you guessing about what his intentions are. You wouldn’t be left wondering whether he’s going to call you back, whether it’s okay to text him first, or whether his excuses for ditching you on the dinner date are actually genuine. His behavior with you would remain consistent, not hot and cold. He would mean every word that comes out of his mouth. He would inform you of what’s happening in his life, and not leave you feeling paranoid about what you did wrong. He would ensure that you’re always well aware, about the big things in his life as well as the small.
If he truly loved you, he wouldn’t pressurize you into acting in a specific way or presenting a certain image to the world. You wouldn’t have to pretend when you’re with him. You wouldn’t have to put on that mask that you show to the rest of the world. You wouldn’t be afraid of revealing all your weaknesses, flaws and imperfections. You wouldn’t stop from being your most vulnerable and true self when you’re with them. You would unzip every layer of your personality and he would find reasons to love each one of them completely. And you would feel assured that there’s at least one person in the world who will love and accept you for exactly who you are.
If he truly loved you, he would want to introduce you to all of his family and friends. He would wait anxiously for the day they will all get to meet you, the day they will hear all your amazing stories, the day the will laugh at your jokes, the day they will see how perfect you both are for each other, the day they will realize how truly lucky he is to have found you, and the day they will fall in love with you exactly the way he has. - Continue reading on the next page