If she scares you, SHE IS THE ONE

F J Posted 2 years ago
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It is both amusing and surprising how couples that usually last forever are the kinds where the woman scares the man, not in a bad way, in the most harmless ways. Like when you leave the kettle on or when you forget to do something the third time… you know you are screwed.

Let me first clear this out, being scared of someone doesn’t really mean that you have to be submissive or they have to be dominant over you and it certainly doesn’t mean that you are weak or they are strong. Being scared could be good and healthy. At times, it is good because it keeps you away from doing something wrong or it helps you understand women and their feelings. It often makes you want to be a better man and many times it just makes you feel that it is not actually her you are scared of, it is the thought of seeing her unhappy or hurt that you don’t ever want to do something that will wipe away that smile you love on her.

So here are a few reasons why being scared of her really means that she is the one for you and the one you truly love.

1. You can't stand the fact that you both aren’t talking to each other

You don’t want fights that will upset both of you and will result in the two of you not talking to each other for days. You just don’t want to waste that much time! You would rather apologize for the things you think you did wrong and let her apologize for hers so you both can make up.

Who wants to waste all that time alone, when you both can snuggle up on the couch and watch a romantic movie? You’d rather do that than sit there in different rooms, angry at each other.

2. You don’t want to displease her because her happiness means so much to you

While others might make fun of you by calling you her puppet or making you feel like you are an absolute wuss if you are scared of making your girl unhappy, only you know that you do what you do to see her happy because you, unlike all the others who make fun of you, have found the love of your life. You value her and you want to keep her happy that’s why even if others might not respect it, you still do it and you still feel like it is your responsibility to ensure that she is happy. Which makes you a catch, by the way. - Continue reading on the next page