8 Mistakes You Might Be Making By Ditching The 'Nice Guy'

Kaetlyn Summers Posted a year ago
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Men often accuse women of dating jerks who treat them badly and they still have a soft spot for them. Every person has a dark side for which they want to be loved for. There are flaws in every human that he or she wants to be accepted for.

As it turns out, this dark side always makes people afraid to plunge into relationships or commitment. They fear that they will not be accepted for these flaws by a sane person. We forget that ever person has patches of insanity inscribed in their personality.

At the end of the day, when we see the same shortcomings in another person, we try to fix them and give them acceptance. It’s true;

We accept the love we think we deserve.

Here are some reasons women always go for people who turn out to be terrible boyfriends.

  1. Distant, Emotionally-Unavailable Men arouse subjective curiosity 

It's human nature to figure people out and distant men always have a story to tell. They are reserved and distant for a reason and women get attracted to that. It arouses this curiosity in them and they want to figure them out without thinking of the aftermath.

Sometimes, this endeavour earns them a person who is really worth fighting for and worth their time but sometimes, some men are just not meant for relationships and no matter what you do for them, they will never fall in love with you. They have their own inner being to tend to that will always hurt you.

They will hurt you and no matter how close you get to them, they will always push you away and this leads to a very troubling situation, a situation where you start to blame yourself for their behavior. You start to say that maybe you are not capable to make another person happy and this only leaves you with a tainted past.

As long as you are in a relationship with such a person, you are beguiling yourself into thinking that maybe you are fixing your partner but all you are doing is damaging yourself.  - Continue reading on next page