Never Beg To Be Loved

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NEVER beg!

You should never have to beg for anyone to love you. Understand that you are the owner of your own life and that you need to take a stand. While it’s okay to fight for love, as you should, it’s never okay to be at the mercy of another person for the sake of it. When you love someone, and you want to be loved in return, you are going to have to earn that love. You are going to have to learn what it takes to be vulnerable to another person, but you should never have to beg for love. That’s beneath you.

Love is difficult. It continues to elude many of us no matter how hard we try or how hard we work for it. We think that we finally have love within our grasp and we let it slip right through our fingers. There are very few things in this world that are more devastating than having our hearts broken. But we shouldn’t let heartbreak ever lead us into acts of desperation. We shouldn’t let our broken hearts get the best of us. We shouldn’t let disappointment rule our lives. Just because we’ve been hurt in the past and are desperate for love doesn’t mean that we have to beg for it. We have to be confident in the fact that love is eventually going to find us when it’s ready – when we’re ready.

When you love someone, you should let that person know about your intentions. You should be willing to let that that person know that your hand is ready for holding whenever they need it. You should tell that person that your shoulder is ready to be leaned on whenever they feel a little too tired or exhausted from the world. Let them know just how much they mean to you and how easy it is for you whenever you’re together. These are all very good ways for you to earn a person’s love without necessarily having to beg for it. Whatever you do, you can never allow yourself to beg for another person’s love.