Never Beg To Be Loved

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You have to understand that you need to love and respect yourself first before anyone could learn to love you. It will be very difficult for you to find a person who is going to fall in love with you when they know that you don’t even love yourself. You have to own up to who you are and be proud of it. You should know that you are worthy of love, even if it doesn’t always come from the people you want it to come from. That’s just the way of life. You can never force people to fall in love with you, and that’s okay. That doesn’t mean you should succumb to begging for that love. That doesn’t mean that you have to turn yourself into another person’s slave just so you can win over that person’s affections. You are more than that and you have to start acting like it.

Never undermine your own dignity or your pride. While it’s okay to humble yourself, it’s still just as important to respect yourself. Know that your life has value and that anyone would be lucky to have you. Know that you have the ability to bring brightness into the life of the people around you. That’s why you should never feel like you have to force your way into someone’s heart. You should never feel like you have to beg for a person to love you – not especially when your love doesn’t need begging at all.

When you love a person, you should just love that person and hope for the best. Hope for that person to love you back. You can be sweet and affectionate. You can be kind and generous. You can be thoughtful and loving. But even if you are all of those things, sometimes, they are just never enough to make another person fall in love with you, and that’s okay. You should learn to be okay with that. You have to accept that there are some love stories in this world that aren’t just meant to happen – and maybe that’s because there are bigger and better stories in store for us in the future. 

You are an amazing person. You are strong and you are brave. You are willing to let yourself fall for the sake of love, and that’s a good thing. But that doesn’t mean you have to lower your social status just to get someone to fall in love with you. That doesn’t mean that you have to live a lesser life than the one that you’re living just to win someone’s graces. If a love was truly meant to be, you wouldn’t have to beg for it at all. If a love was real, then you would know – and it will be the greatest thing you will ever experience.