12 Painful Struggles Of Getting Back With Your Ex Boyfriend

EK Posted 2 years ago
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Have you already decided to give your relationship another chance with your Ex-boyfriend? Then brace yourself.

Recent years have shown an increasing trend of getting back with ex-girlfriends or boyfriends after the breakup. Everyone has a different reason to get back to their ex.

Some people feel that their breakup was a mistake and they want to make up for that. While there are others who think that giving another try to their relationship can possibly change things, there is a category of people who start believing that their ex has now changed and he/she is a totally different person. Some simply cannot get their ex out of their head and end up reverting back to him/her.

I am not going to discuss the pros and cons of each of these reasons that urge you to go back to your ex boyfriend. But once you decide to get back with your ex, you need to gear up yourself to face the challenges that come with this new relationship with your ex. Here, I will discuss the 12 most painful struggles that a girl has to go through when she is getting back with her ex boyfriend.

1. You have to announce that you are back together

Well, it’s not as easy as it may sound. You need to tell each and every person from your family, your social circle and your friends that you are now back with the same person whom you have been accusing of cheating or infidelity, the same guy who was declared a jerk by you is now your man again.

2. You have to update your status on social media

Switching your Facebook status from ‘in a relationship’ to ‘complicated’ to ‘single’ and then back to ‘in a relationship’ is not that much daunting as putting your ex boyfriend’s name next to your relationship status again. You will simply hate the feeling when your friends see the notification of you re-adding him on your social media network.