I often see couples treating breakups as the worst things that can ever happen to them. It is, it sure is, there is no denying it but being the positive person I am in life, I also think there are always two sides to every story.
Breakups are not always bad, sometimes they are for the good of two people even though they love each other but they are better off without them. Thinking like this might disturb the whole idealistic idea of love for you but let me remind you what true love means. It does not mean forcefully living with someone even if you are not happy with them. It does not mean binding yourself and someone else to a commitment even if it limits their true potential. It does not being frustrated. In fact, it can simply be described in one sentence:
“Love is when you want them to be happy and they want you to be happy even if it means not having each other in their lives.”
Now hold on to this one sentence for every reason that I give below and you will truly understand what I mean.
1. IT IS BETTER TO LET GO IF YOU CANT FORGIVE
Staying in the relationship, even though every time you look at your partner, they remind you of how they have hurt you and how much pain you are going through, is not wise. You will constantly feel under appreciated and unimportant. On the other hand, your partner will be fighting within themselves and the guilt they carry. Whether it is cheating or any mistake that has poisoned the relation. Why linger on to something that is slowly poisoning itself? It is better to free yourself and your partner from the constant torture.