There are a lot of guys out there who don’t have a good time talking to girls. They have these weird talks with girls which turn out to be really boring or quite awkward when you hear them out loud. They are either not good socially or they have stage-fright. Whatever the reason may be, they end up being rejected by most of the girls and they develop some sort of complex which makes things even worse for them in the future.
Persistence, my friend, is a good thing and you should never lose hope. Here are some of the reasons why most of the girls call guys off.
You don’t have enough experience or you are highly selective
Social anxiety is one of those things that can alleviate your confidence a lot. Some people even find it hard staring into someone’s eyes for more than some seconds. They are not good at conversations at all. Their first impression is abysmal. They come off as goofs or really dumb people. However, they have a lot to offer when someone gets to know them.
The underlying reason behind this is that they don’t have much experience communicating with people in their early years. They weren’t socially accepted or they didn’t have as many friends. The other reason is that they may be highly selective in trusting people. Everyone has trust issues and they find it hard talking to people because they think a lot. Some betrayal in the past has made them really defensive when it comes to approaching people. *Continue reading on next page*