Insecurities are the biggest illusions that our own minds create for us. We all have gone through or are going through that stage where even the smallest of our flaws seem like such a big issue. We start to feel that everything that has gone wrong or is yet to go wrong happens because of them. These insecurities often create problems out of nowhere and relationships that were bound to last a lifetime get ruined. I have had my fair share of insecurities myself and I am slowly getting over them. It is a slow process, nothing will happen overnight but gradually you will get over these insecurities and you will be able to see a huge change in the way your partner is with you.
4. STOP THE GUESSING AND PREDICTING GAME
We are so driven by our own insecurities that we start thinking that everything and anything that happens is a consequence of that insecurity. If your partner doesn’t feel like going out, don’t assume it is because of you, they could have had a really bad day at work that drained their energy as well. We forget to keep a little for the benefit-of-doubt. We are so sold on our own insecurities that we don’t even think twice about the causes of a situation. We casually assume that everything happens because of the baseless insecurities that our minds have produced.