10 ways to stop making your relationship harder than it actually is

Kaetlyn Summers Posted 2 years ago
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When you are in love, everything seems perfect at the start. But, as time passes, doubts start appearing. These doubts can either make or break a relationship depending on how you handle the tough times. Being in love with someone and sharing a major part of your life is already hard as it seems. So when you start having second thoughts about almost everything, this becomes even more difficult and you start to look for ways to quit. Do not forget that long term relationships are not based on second thoughts.

Here is a list of a few things that you should not do to make your relationship harder than it already is:

  1. Never compare your relationship with others:

Comparing what you have with your partner with some other couple who apparently has it better is a crime. Every relationship has flaws and loopholes. You think others are having a better time than you but in reality, they might be facing the same kind of insecurity when they see you and your partner together.

You see their “love” on social media and think why you don’t have such closeness and adventurous life, but what you have might be much stronger inside.

2. True love is not supposed to be easy:

When we are talking about true love, well, it is the hardest thing in the world. Honestly. Love comes in all forms and faces but the one which gives you the hardest time is actually the true one. Instead of running away from this fact and looking for easier ways and shortcuts, just work your relationship through hard times and that will actually help you to connect better with your partner. *Continue reading to next page*