These days, most relationships start off like a teenage sweet-dream…just to end up like shriveled leaves. Someone leaves quickly; gets bored, moves on; finds love somewhere else or chases after materialism. Nothing lasts forever.
That doesn’t imply when it’s happening it should be devoid of conscious love. Human emotions are too weak a tool to be trusted, yet every once in a while two people right for each other do come along. They experience growth as individuals and as a couple. Here are 4 basic qualities representing what it means to be in a conscious, next-level love kind of relationship.
The relationship’s ultimate outcome matters to both of you in terms of growth
Sometimes, either one or both the individuals involved in a relationship don’t see themselves enthusiastic at all towards what they will achieve at the end of the relationship, whether it’s actually going somewhere or just a waste of both their times. Now that doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t care about the relationship.
It also doesn’t mean you don’t fantasize what it’d be like to grow old with your partner. Modern relationships fail at letting a means for people to grow to their highest potential. This is because we try to act in a way to please others, try to mold our partner into our idea of perfection that we ultimately become puzzled at what we have become. We feel like the relationship is a cage keeping us trapped from growing as a person, when in truth we cage our own self.
This is one of the major reasons we have failed at keeping romantic love in our relationships these days. We need to grow and look forward to the outcome of our relationship because without growth, our soul like a rotting plant. Growth is vital to fulfilling our purpose in this life. So being in a conscious relationship demands both of you keep a clear head about where it’s going to end in the long run of things to come. It demands both of you to give value to grow as individual beings from the relationship. That way, a sense of purpose and a feeling of aliveness exists and so does love. - Continue reading on next page