A girl who has always been on her own and has no emotional or intimate affiliations will definitely give you a challenging time.
A girl who has always been on her own and has no emotional or intimate affiliations will definitely give you a challenging time. And there is no doubt about it.
Just like other girls she won’t be easily readable at first. She’ll be really uncertain about everything and especially you. Don’t get upset by it, all you have to do is to stay persistent and bear with her for your own good.
There are a lot of things going on in her mind, these things will make her unpredictable and weird. For instance, on some days she will be all over your inbox with long conversations and on other days you will not get to hear anything from her. There would be days when all she wants would be a hug from you and then there will also come the days when she wouldn’t even let you poke her. Her endless worries will keep her preoccupied most of the time. But don’t worry in the beginning she will keep you out of all these happenings but she will get fine eventually.
She has always been on her own and because of this she will at times fail to recognize your support but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. It’s just her previous single-hood incorporated in her personality that’s causing this quandary.
She knows really well what it feels like when someone you regard a lot turns his back on you. She knows what is feels like when the most valuable people leave you and walk out of your life. She knows the pain of being left alone and being betrayed. But she wants to allow herself to open up about things with you, to share things with you and talk about things that are important to her but a part of her will make her question your credibility. She will evaluate you and think about the chances and scenarios that can make you leave her. It’s not that she is insecure she just doesn’t want to go through all the wrong things happened in the past. The experiences are traumatic and she clearly wants to avoid them. Don’t worry; she will take her time and open up to you. Be patient because she is worth it and all good things come to those who wait patiently and optimistically. - Continue reading on the next page