The Kind of Guys you’re better off without

Misty Renee Posted 4 months ago
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Stay far away from these kind of guys!

No matter how much you deny it, no matter how hard you try to avoid it, and no matter how badly you wish it wasn’t true, the reality of life is that we can’t control who we fall in love with. Can you imagine how much easier our lives would be if we had at least some say in who gets to make our heart beat a little faster, who makes our day shine brighter with just one smile, and who controls the eternal key to our happiness? But even if we can’t completely control it, we can at least take some precautionary measures. For starters, let us help you identify the certain types of guys who you’re definitely better off without. Understand their patterns. Keep a look out for the hurtful behavior they might cause you. And just rule them out of your life before they even get the chance to be a part of it.

And if you feel like you’re already stuck with a guy like this, then don’t feel too disheartened. Don’t break things off immediately. Give him time. Help him understand the difficulties you’re facing in this relationship. And if he still doesn’t change, then take out some time to think about whether he’s really worth all the trouble. Here are 10 kinds of guys that you really don’t need in your life:

  1. The Disrespectful One

We’re all well-aware of the fact that no relationship in the world can function successfully without a certain level of mutual respect. But sometimes, when you’re dating a guy, the disrespectful behavior that you need to look out for extends beyond the relationship. If he can’t talk politely to the waiter at dinner, if he has no problem in angrily pushing off any beggars that approach him on the street, if he is famous at his work-place for being the annoying guy with the condescending attitude, if he can’t talk straight to his own parents, then it’s highly unlikely that he’s capable of showing true respect to anyone at all. Don’t give him time and reasons to start disrespecting you as well.

  1. The Aggressive One

This is probably one of the worst kinds of guys that you’ll ever have to deal with. And the reason is pretty obvious – you can’t ever feel safe with him. This guy is forceful. He is demanding. And he feels no issue in resorting to verbal or physical violence the minute he gets upset about something. You’ve heard all about the fights he got into in college just because someone looked at him in a weird way or because he didn’t agree with what someone was saying. You’ve seen him burst out at the people he loves and even at strangers sometimes, so you keep reminding yourself to be very careful about the things you say and the things you do when he’s around. You don’t want anything to upset him or to set off his fiery temper at any moment. He might not be abusive towards you at the moment, but you can always feel a little fear lingering on in your heart. And even if he doesn’t harm you physically, he is definitely capable of harming you emotionally. All his life, he has played the role of a bully so don’t be too surprised if he doesn’t stop playing that role when he’s in a relationship. It doesn’t matter how hot or dreamy you think he is, there should never be any room in your life for a guy like this one. - Continue reading on the next page