“It’s not your job to like me, it’s mine.”
— Byron Katie
When a man leaves a strong woman, he isn’t doing himself a favor. He isn’t setting himself free. He isn’t about to gain the satisfaction of knowing that there is a woman out there who is crying for him, desperately hoping that he’ll come back somehow.
He is, in fact, doing that woman a favor. Because a strong woman is quick to realize that she is worth much more than a guy who chooses to leave her. She knows that he doesn’t deserve her tears or her time. She knows that she is the best thing that ever happened to him. And she is confident in the fact that he won’t find it again.
A strong woman isn’t someone who will allow a silly boy to be the cause of her life’s destruction or the reason behind her tears and hopelessness. No, that is something that will NEVER happen. She is the woman who will rise over and over again, regardless of the pain and loss she feels.
Because no matter how many times people try to bring her down, no matter how many heartbreaks she endures in life from guys like you, and no matter how hard the situation might be, she can never be down for too long. She can never stay drowned in a pool of her own tears. And she can never think of a single guy as the end of her entire world. - Continue reading on next page