The Top 10 Reasons She Dumped You

So you just got dumped and you don’t know why. You’re feeling brokenhearted, rejected, dejected, confused, downtrodden, and publicly humiliated. These are perfectly acceptable reactions to your situation. No one ever likes to be on the receiving end of a dumping. Amidst all the confusion and emotional turmoil, you’re having trouble trying to pinpoint where the relationship went wrong.

So you just got dumped and you don’t know why. You’re feeling brokenhearted, rejected, dejected, confused, downtrodden, and publicly humiliated. These are perfectly acceptable reactions to your situation. No one ever likes to be on the receiving end of a dumping. Amidst all the confusion and emotional turmoil, you’re having trouble trying to pinpoint where the relationship went wrong. Was it one big mistake that you committed or was it an accumulation of annoying things that you did when you were together?

Regardless, there is no use crying over spilled milk. Either you go and try to win her back, or you move on. And if you want to move on, it’s best that you get some closure with your previous relationship and try to figure out just where you screwed up so you can try to improve. You don’t want to be committing the same mistakes in your next relationships. Feeling lost? Don’t worry. Here are some probable reasons why she left you:

1. You’re terrible in the sack.

Sad. This must be humiliating but maybe you need to start reviewing your moves in the bedroom. Did you make things exciting? Did you manage to pleasure her every night that you were together? Maybe you were selfish and were only looking out for yourself in the bedroom and she left you as a result. Brush up on your bedroom tricks by reading up on magazines and internet articles every once in a while.

2. She got bored with you.

Maybe the steadiness of your relationship is what got to her. Perhaps you guys were becoming a little too comfortable with each other and ended up in a rut. Whenever you’re in a relationship with someone, you always have to make an effort to keep things fresh and interesting. You never want to settle into a boring routine that you will live out with each other for the rest of your lives.

3. You’re an insensitive jerk.

Maybe you didn’t see it coming because you were always thinking of yourself. Maybe you lack certain levels of empathy and sensitivity that she needed in your relationship. Perhaps she needed you to think of her more often and to be more sensitive of what she was thinking or of how she was feeling at a particular moment. – Continue reading on the next page

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