The Top 9 Reasons Why Your Man Isn’t Listening To You

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Ladies, understand your man better!

Men are from Mars, women are from Venus, right? It’s that age-old phenomenon that has plagued the human race since the dawn of civilization. Men and women are just different in plenty of ways. These differences are the instigators for many arguments and disagreements. It’s to be expected that men and women won’t get along all the time. It’s virtually impossible. A man and a woman’s DNA is just wired differently. It’s science! Look it up.

So ladies, don’t be so frustrated whenever you don’t understand why your man can be such an idiot sometimes. He’s just not operating on the same wavelength as you. What you have to do is to try to psychoanalyze him and understand where he’s coming from as well. If you feel like he’s not really listening to you or paying you any attention, then there’s a reason for that. In fact, there are a few possibilities that come to mind. Here are the top 9 reasons why your man isn’t really listening to you:

1. Men don’t like to be on the receiving end of your rants.

If you’re going to end up just treating your man like a punching bag even though he doesn’t deserve it, don’t be surprised if he ends up tuning you out. Men don’t like to ever have to hear you rant about things that don’t concern him. If you have a problem with this annoying co-worker, and want to take your frustrations out at your man, then don’t ever expect him to be enthusiastic about it.

2. Men know that you don’t like it when they try to fix things for you.

Sometimes, you just need an emotional outlet to vent about your problems to. A good boyfriend should be able to serve as that outlet. However, there are times when he will want to help you with your problems and you’ll turn him down. You didn’t really want a solution, you just wanted to express your sentiments. He finds that practice pointless if you didn’t want his opinion in the first place. - Continue reading on the next page