Narcissists have a complete disregard for another person’s emotions. They don’t think twice before deprecating someone’s height or skin color or their fragile insecurities. They think that if they show others that they’re not good enough, they will somehow elevate their status in this society. However, all this behavior does is that they become alone and when you hurt people, it has chronic effects on your life.
A narcissist is well aware of that but when you do not try to detach from your selfish side, it becomes a part of you. A narcissist is always taught to spit on the world and that’s how he’s been raised. He doesn’t believe that there are people out there who have been inflicted with real unbearable pain because he has always had it easy.
I’m talking about pure narcissists here, not people who wear masquerades just to conceal the good in them because they don’t want people getting attached to them. They are a whole different lot.
Here are some signs of a pure Narcissist.
Masters of Manipulation
Narcissists are highly egotistical people. In relationships, if they ever have an argument, and even if you have blatant evidence against them, they’ll always have a way out. Words like ‘you’re judgmental’; “You’re not perfect either” will be used by them just to pour the blame on you. They lack acceptance.
Even if they stab you, they’ll say, “You made me do this’’. Like seriously? Okay, I made you do this, why don’t you take that dagger out and stab your thick hollow skull with it.
It’s always about them
Sometimes you just meet someone who wants to be constantly admired. He or she wants to be constantly reminded what kind of fairy princess she is and how the Taj Mahal is her personal belonging. Sure, you say some words in their high praise to make them feel better. Its okay, no big deal. – Continue reading on next page