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  • 5 Things Guys do when they start getting Serious in a Relationship


    “In my opinion, Love comes after love. I know what you’re saying. What does this even mean, right? Well, when we try to explain an irrational emotion such as love in scientific terms, we only refer it to as a hormonal change. When these hormones subside and we still want to make efforts to keep someone in our life, then that’s the point where a hormonal fluctuation transforms into true love. It changes into something serious, something grand.”

    In the beginning of a relationship, it’s all sunshine and rainbows. You get that butterflies in the stomach feeling all the time but as time progresses, things change and the same intensity of emotion is hard to maintain. It takes struggle and hardship to keep your relationship alive. Guys who are really serious about you and are in head over heels in love with you will mature into someone who will be enough for the both of you. Their immature boyish attitude will transform into one of a Real man. On the other hand, guys who were never serious about you to begin with will never show these signs and they will leave you early on in the relationship.

    1. Physical appearance starts to matter less

    When you’re truly in love with someone, there is a much deeper connection than a physical urge. You accept them for who they are and you see them through a different lens than the world.

    This may all sound nonsensical to you but it’s true. Looks matter in this materialistic world, they do. People do consider them a measure to approach people. But when you really like someone and there is no element of lust there, you tend to find attractiveness somewhere. Love is all about finding something beautiful in someone and treasuring it. It does not care for bodily imperfections.

    Guys who are serious about their girlfriend always notice the little details. They look for something to compliment. If you have worn a new dress or you have spent a lot time to look good for your guy, he will definitely notice it and he will compliment you. – Continue reading on next page