This Is How You Keep Ruining Your Chances at Love, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Whether you believe in zodiac signs or not, they make up for extensive and detailed conversations. Not only that, it has scientifically been theorized that the month you are born in plays a role in your traits to some extent. So, our dear readers! Zodiac signs are not complete hocus-pocus.

Here, we have compiled a list of the most prevalent trait that might cause you problems in your dating life:

Aries (march 21st to April 19th)

The high noon of your experience is focused on the thrill that comes from falling in love but you are never too thrilled with the stage that comes afterwards.

Because of your adventurous nature, after you have fallen for someone, you feel like things have become boring and monotonous.

However, as an Aries, you have to realize that love is something that can never be stale or boring in any stage. Love keeps morphing into a lifelong adventure. Once you are familiar with this belief, there will be much less complications in your relationship. You can also read our very famous articles on how to love an Aries and how you should be loved.

Taurus (April 20th to May 21st)

As a Taurus, you are both loving and compassionate towards your partner. However, you are very rigid when it comes to leaving your comfort zone. Moreover, you are not flexible and are not able to cope properly with the ever-changing dynamics of any relationship. Your need to be always in control also hinders your true attachment to your partner, thus the countless relationship problems.

You need to understand that things don’t always stay the same. Each and every aspect of every relationship is fluid in nature and cannot follow a set path. You need to brace yourself for all the instances. You can also read our another piece on 7 things that make Taurus the most romantic partner ever.

Gemini (May 22nd to June 21st)

As a Gemini you are very guarded regarding your feelings. Instead, you put on a happy-go-lucky face forward and people around you think that you cannot be hurt. This is one of the reasons why people around you are drawn towards you. However, this attractive trait can also prove to be an issue when it comes to intimate relationships.

Due to your cheerful behavior, people slowly stop considering your feelings, especially your partners. A way to beat this is for you to realize that it is okay to show emotions every now and then. As a Gemini, you have amazing instincts and you can easily identify the trustworthy people, the only thing you need to do is, nudge yourself towards a direction where you will finally start opening up to these people and where you will stop being afraid to show emotions. Also read our separate article for Geminies: 5 Easy Ways to Love a Gemini 

Cancer (June 22nd to July 22nd)

As a Cancer, uncertainty scares you to such a point that your defense mechanisms kick in whenever you are faced with uncertainty. You have to learn that it is sometimes acceptable to leave things on chance and probability. You cannot always be sure about everything. Especially when it comes to intimate relationships, it is okay to leave some aspects in the hands of chance! Things always have a way of working out sooner or later, there is no point in stressing over them.

What you should do is, draw up a list of all the relationship aspects that are in your control and the aspects that are out of your control. This little exercise will help you in identifying and potentially accepting the circumstances that are not in your control and can never be. Also read 10 things you need to know about a Cancerian woman.

Leo (July 23rd to August 22nd)

As a Leo, you are hell-bent on doing everything in your own certain way. You plan and you plot before executing any decision. While a good strategy in life and career, it can wreak havoc on your dating life.

You need to understand that not everything will go exactly like your plans, in fact, unpredictability is one of the key elements of a healthy relationship. Moreover, in order to have a successful dating life, you will need to learn how to open up to another human being and how to let him in. How else will he/she see the amazing person that you are?  Here are some qualities of Leo women and how you should treat them the right way. 

Virgo (August 23rd to September 22nd)

As a Virgo, your biggest problem is over-analyzing. When it comes to dating, you are always thinking about the possible and probably mess-ups and you try to analyze all the outcomes. However, spontaneity is very important in the dating life. Without spontaneity, dating will end up becoming a stressful chore. You really do not need to put yourself under this immense of a pressure just because you want to put forward your “perfect self”

While dating, go easy on yourself. There are so many good things in the present that you could be focusing on instead of ruminating over the endless and meaningless thought-process. There is nothing about your personality that you should concern yourself with, the right person will love you with those lapses and flaws. Hell! They might even fall for you because of the things you consider a flaw in your personality. So, all the Virgos out there! Keep an open mind. Here are 13 things that you should know about loving a Virgo.

Libra (September 23rd to October 22nd)

As a Libra, it is very easy for you to get along with all the people in your surroundings. Due to this reason, you have a big social circle and dating life is a breeze for you. However, your biggest flaw is that you are a commitment-phoebe. The moment someone starts to get seriously involved in you, you find escapes and you move on to the next thing.

The problem is, it is all fun and games in the short run but in order for a lifelong fulfillment, you will need to know people on a deeper level and you will need to let them invest in you instead of taking the first chance to take flight! If you are in love with Libra then read 10 truths about loving a Libra and you can also read Why are Libras considered as the best long term partners.

Scorpio (October 23rd to November 22nd)

As a Scorpio, you are very suspicious of people. Your trust issues have caused you many disconnections with people you were once close to. You never let people penetrate the surface and know the real you. Due to this, you feel like you do not have a real connection with anyone. And you know what? This is all done in vein. You can never stop yourself from catching the feelings or getting hurt, might as well get hurt on your own terms. How will you train your instincts without trusting a few bad people? How will you learn to read people and predict who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and who will not treat you nicely?  If you’re planning on dating a Scorpio then you should know the 15 Brutally Honest things about Scorpios.

Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st)

As a Sagittarius, you are very carefree. You prefer to go with the flow. In your opinion, love should be an integration into life and not a priority. Even though you get along with a bunch of people and you date a lot, you will still need to settle on someone and get serious. Once you do get serious, you will have a little trouble finding out that love is not as easy as you expected to be and it does not follow a “flow.” Problems will arise when you will become reluctant to put in the needed efforts into your relationship.

Instead, you can integrate your existing life philosophy of “going with the flow” into your relationship by giving your best efforts and letting things unfold.  Also read, 10 Ways to Love a Sagittarius. 

Capricorn (December 22nd to January 20th)

As a Capricorn, you are overly patient and borderline pessimistic. These two traits do not go well in the dating world. Moreover, your overly reserved nature will sometimes push people away from you. Try to give people benefit of the doubt and start stepping out of your preset comfort-zone while keeping your standards as high as you can. Of course, you will meet some undesirable people on your journey towards a lifelong and compassionate relationship. 10 Things to Remember While Loving a Capricorn and if you are in a relationship with a Capricorn read, 10 ways to make a strong relationship with a Capricorn!

Aquarius (January 21st to February 18th)

As an Aquarius, you are very independent and do not rely on anyone especially for your emotional needs. However, this sense of independence makes you detached from the people around you, including your loved ones. We understand that being aloof is enough to protect you from any possible emotional trauma but it will also decrease the chances of you ever finding the kind of partner that you need and deserve in your life.

Taking risks is scary, but what’s scarier is living a life without any strong connections. At the end of the day, human beings are social animals. Also read, 9 Things to Adopt For a Healthy Relationship with an Aquarius.

Pisces (February 19th to March 20th)

As a Pisces, you are selfless and very compassionate and these traits make you a wonderful partner. However, in the dating world, you sometimes have trouble standing up for yourself. Most people try to use you for emotional gains that are attached to your generosity and kindness.

Always make sure that you are treated the same way and with same regard as you treat other people. A way to achieve this is to spend most of your time with the people who understand and appreciate you. Having an inconsiderate partner can bring you a life of unhappiness. Also read, 10 things you need to know about Loving a Pisces.

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