Even the strongest women in society sometimes get to face the Judgment of others on the basis of the decisions that they make. Of course, all of us have our weaknesses no matter how strong we are, we do sometimes give in. The problem comes when you believe that you owe someone an apology when your actions weren’t even wrong. That is not the case every time.
Sometimes, there are things over which you should just not apologize to people around you. Of course, it is important to fit into society and work according to the norms that you have been taught by your peers, but if it comes to your self-respect and your rules, then many people believe that you should not apologize.
We have a list of cases in which you should know that if you’re not apologizing to the other party, then you are doing yourself a favor.
1. When you put yourself first:
Every strong woman knows that she needs to take care of herself. If Society wants you to compromise and consider others over your own feelings and emotions, then it is okay to go against them and take care of your own self. If people get angry at you for doing so, then there is no need to apologize. Because what you're doing is for your own betterment. You are giving yourself the respect you deserve, and no one has the right to take that respect away from you which you have kept for your own self.
There will be times when society would expect you to change your priorities according to their demands. If you don't do so, you might face a little bit of judgement, but do not be afraid because all you're doing is for your own self and your mental well-being.
Also read: 12 ways women with trust issues show you that they actually care.
2. Making plans according to your choices and needs:
There was a study held in the 1970's where it was found that women always need assistance in order to make their plans. Their decisions are usually according to the needs of the people around them. Their plans are never completely according to what they want for their own self. Nowadays, strong women make their own decisions and make their own plans. Which is why women should know that if they are making plans without the consent of people around them, then there's nothing to be ashamed of or feel sorry about.
The reason behind this is when it's your life and when you're an independent woman, your maturity and your intellect would tell you what is right for you and what is not and if you make the decisions that are the best for you, then you do not need to apologize if someone gets offended by them. *Continue reading to next page*