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    I’ve been always someone who has loved beyond any limits. There is no middle ground for me. I either Love too much or I am this really distant person.

    There are many people out there who are exactly like me, who have been genetically predisposed with this inherent urge to love that they can’t help themselves. They can’t help caring for someone and sacrificing their own needs and happiness for someone else.

    It’s because Loving is all they’ve been programmed to do and if they do anything contrary to that, their whole body will defy them and it will be anarchy.

    The price I had to pay for being a girl who cares too much

    It’s hard to be a girl who loves too much because humans have a habit of taking girls like that for granted and they only understand their worth once they retreat to their dormant states where they become this totally different person. This behavioral adaptation is something the world should expect because the way this world treats them and rips them apart into little pieces. This quote pretty much sums up our situation.

    “You cannot create a monster and then condemn it. Hate its ugly features, its terrible gait. When I look into the mirror, I do not see myself But all of you who made me.”

    What do people like us have to go through?

    All of this happened to me and there were times when I used to look in the mirror and stare at myself. I used to look through my eyes and I could see a person. I always thought that this person inside me deserved better and that I was holding her back. – Continue reading on next page