What It Means To Fall For A Strong And Independent Woman Who Can Fend For Herself

These walls; this façade that she has managed to build over time is ingrained into her very being. She has a shell that she retreats into whenever she’s caught in a place of discomfort or worry. She never likes to feel vulnerable because in her mind, vulnerability is weakness. A woman like her who is used to always being alone can’t afford to be weak in any aspect. Her deficiencies in the realms of social dependence need to be compensated by absolute strength even during the most difficult times.

There are so many fish in the sea, as the cliché goes; but trust us when we say that there isn’t a fish quite like a strong and independent one who can fend for herself. A girl who has zero dependence on other people will most likely be accustomed to being on her own. It will be difficult to penetrate whatever walls she has put up to protect herself from the ill intentions of others. She knows that there aren’t too many people in the world who have her back, and so she always has to undertake the necessary precautions to defend herself from those who want to harm her. The harsh realities of life haven’t been kind to her but she doesn’t complain. She knows that she’s up to the challenge and she knows she will overcome. Her walls are built tall and high, and it will be difficult for anyone to climb over them or break them down.

It’s part of her personality. These walls; this façade that she has managed to build over time is ingrained into her very being. She has a shell that she retreats into whenever she’s caught in a place of discomfort or worry. She never likes to feel vulnerable because in her mind, vulnerability is weakness. A woman like her who is used to always being alone can’t afford to be weak in any aspect. Her deficiencies in the realms of social dependence need to be compensated by absolute strength even during the most difficult times. Her life belongs to no one but herself. Her acuity to solitude and self-dependence have made her very strong and reliable. However, with boxing herself in like that, she is also limiting her perspectives on the world and the society that inhabits it. There are just too many complex in the people for her and they intimidate her. That’s why it can be difficult for her to fall into the dating scene because she likes to be measured in any activity that she chooses to engage in. She doesn’t want to start dating people that she doesn’t understand. However, what she doesn’t know is that she needs to date people in order to better understand what she’s looking for in life and in love. She needs to start opening herself up more if she wants to be able to find the romance that she deserves. – Continue reading on the next page

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