Every man is wired in a different way, if there are 50 shades of grey, imagine how many shades of men there might be out there. Women have different preferences too; one of my friends didn’t want to be called sexy by her partner. Not sure if that’s a plus or negative but she wanted to be her own person and didn’t want to be judged under the community standards of sexy. I, on the other hand, love being called sexy by my partner. See, if I am sad or not feeling myself, I want to be called cute. If I am happy and jumpy, I love to be called sexy and If we are surrounded by hot women, he’d rather call me beautiful. Does that make any sense to you?
Coming back to men, they have moods too you know, plus there is the age factor. After getting to know my partner well, I now know that men are not like planks and they don’t exactly mean what they say all the time. There might be a deeper hidden meaning to what they say.
Cute is about as plain as it gets
Imagine how you would feel if a man you don’t know comes up to you, says that you are sexy without striking a conversation and then gives you a creepy smile. Here is the outcome of what a normal woman’s mind would process out of the given situation.
- Omg, what a pervert, really? We don’t even know one another and this is what you have to say? Maybe I should check if he is a listed sex offender.
- This man has no respect for women whatsoever, the nerve he had to walk up to me and call me sexy at my face, ugh, I can do better than that.
Men sometimes might call you cute when they don’t want you to feel intimidated. That’s it girls, don’t fret about being cute, cute is a good thing. It means that the guy is finally breaking the ice! Here is how the order goes. Cute, Sexy and then comes Beautiful.