What triggers your insecurities?
For some people it is freedom, for some it is some tangible possession and for some it is a person. They are not exactly our weaknesses, but things without which we feel incomplete therefore not very secure. With those things, we feel complete and our insecurities get buried somewhere. Judging from your zodiac signs, here are the things that most probably trigger your insecurities, make you uncomfortable and how can you overcome them without doing much.
Settling for boring haunts you and gives you nightmares since you have always known to be the adventurous kind. You travel a lot and always go out of your way to do things that are thrilling and make you appreciate life so the mere thought of sitting at home and never being able to hit the road again makes you feel insecure. Adventures are your identity so losing those means losing your identity. You fear that people around you won’t find you interesting anymore. The solution to this triggered insecurity is that you try to make normal things exciting; change your definition of normal and try to have fun in the small things that you can afford for the time being. You can also read our very famous articles on how to love an Aries and how you should be loved.
Being a Taurus, you are habitual of putting other people first so when life puts you on a stage where you have to choose yourself over others, you freak out and start feeling really insecure. You wonder if the world will call you selfish if, for once, you decide to look over others’ needs for the sake of your own. Sometimes, you are incredibly selfless, so much that you tend to deprive yourself of some great opportunities. The solution to this unjustified insecurity is that you try to put your own needs first and understand the fact that you are somewhat more important than the people around you. You can also read our another piece on 7 things that make Taurus the most romantic partner ever.
You are the one who preaches about taking life lightly and laughing a lot so when life gives you lemons and you find yourself being more worried than you have ever been, you feel insecure. The worried and anxious you is not the real you. You freak out when you, the one who maintained peace in all situations, is fretting about something. The solution to getting over this insecurity is to understand that life can be hard on all of us. Nothing ever stays be it good times or bad. It is okay to be anxious and what will make you a more practical person is that you try to overcome that anxiety with that positive attitude of yours. Also read our separate article for Geminies: 5 Easy Ways to Love a Gemini. – Continue reading on the next page