Why Chivalry Needs To Be Kept Alive, As Told By A Man

Kaetlyn Summers Posted 2 years ago
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It is our generation which has protested against the sexual constraints put upon them by governing bodies and religious organisations and they are the ones who have paved their way into sexual liberty. There is the emergence of a new concept that our female counterparts having the same sexual desires for their opposite gender.

Gender equality is a topic which has been discussed time and again and yet its solution is nonexistent. People claim they have eradicated social stereotypes but the situation is quite opposite.

These double standards running rampant in our society have led to the death of a very important moral treasure, Chivalry.

If you try too hard for your girl, then society will label you as a creep or desperate. This is deterrent to the concept of chivalry. This stops guys from treating their girls how they should be treated. Guys nowadays put their ego and pride over everything because of these stereotypes, because they think that girls are more attractive to the so called 'cool dudes'.

This grants the guys nowadays a defensive wall to conceal their lack of love for their women and an excuse to act as this distant reserved guy who has limited emotions. The thing is that all of this is a lot of cockamamie.

This mindset that the whole society has provided us has ruined us and damaged our emotional intelligence in a horrifying way. The act of doing simple things for our significant other makes us ponder that maybe we’re being too clingy and we end up doing nothing at all and conceal our burgeoning emotions. This is one of the most selfish things anyone can do. How can something that is done with the intention of making your girl happy ever be wrong? It’s time to ask the serious questions from the man in the mirror.

However, it’s always easy to assume that chivalry is an antiquity as told by every guy in the corner of your street who failed in love brutally or has no experience of a relationship whatsoever.

You can either be afraid of embarrassment or choose to make your girl happy. Please choose the other because it is rewarding for you in the long term and the former will only punish you and make you feel miserable. It has led to a lot of relationships being tattered into pieces. - continue reading to next page...