Ever thought why you always get attached to unavailable men? Here's why.
Ever wonder why you become infatuated with a guy who doesn’t seem worth your time or attention? It does not matter how sweet or generous of a person you might be, sometimes even you might commit some blunders just to wonder in the end how it could happen. We all have our flaws.
More than often, they lead us to do things we wouldn’t otherwise do. In the same pretext, becoming infatuated with men that are out of your league or unavailable is just one of those things that happens as a result of you overlooking some basic facts, underestimating or overestimating the traits he possesses and so on.
Some of you might find men attractive when they appear to be a closed book, while some might find silent figures attractive. Some of you might go for men who are too dominating, while some might find outgoing and friendly guys highly to their liking. Whatever the reasons might be, they often tend to be unlike you, something that you wouldn’t normally go for. Hence the term unavailable is quite safe to use here.
Whatever the reasons might be and however diverse they may be, your zodiac can explain a lot of it based on the traits you possess and how you see others, based on those traits. Here are some reasons you might be attached or tend to become infatuated with men who are unavailable and who, by the end of the day, leave you wondering what you were thinking liking them in the first place.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Being an Aries, you love a challenge. May it be in the work sphere or in relationships, you need to put the best of yourself out there and let others know you are the boss. That being said, you love men who appear to be a challenge for you – men who are not available emotionally and physically too, sometimes.
You like to entice them with your own dominating techniques and you will not stop until you get what you want. So you love everything that represents a challenge to your dominating nature. It becomes like a target to you and you will not stop until you get the mark right. You can also read our very famous articles on how to love an Aries and how you should be loved.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Even though you crave a sense of security and stability in a relationship, you still like being in control – which you usually are in most aspects of your life. And this is the exact reason you often times fall for men who are controlling and stronger in their own lives; men who are not really that easy to tackle and who do not open up that easily either.
Their unflinching and resilient resolve is what attracts you the most, and how stable they are in the way they lead their life. However, they are not mostly the type to settle down that quickly, hence failing to give you the sense of security you so badly need. You can also read our another piece on 7 things that make Taurus the most romantic partner ever.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Due to your social and talkative nature, you have a tendency to fall for those who friend zone you first because you approach them as your buddies, someone you feel you can share your stories with and have intellectual debates with. You do not even ask for more than this due to your friendly and bubbly nature all the while you become shy to let them really know how you truly feel about them.
You might want them to express first their feelings for you. If the need comes, you might even lead them on by talking to other men and give them the impression you are interested in them, even though you are not. It will give them the impression you are not looking for anything more. Also read our separate article for Geminies: 5 Easy Ways to Love a Gemini.