You Are Worth the Chase

Yes, YOU ARE!

It takes a couple of seconds for an average girl to doubt her own worth when a guy shows lesser interest in her than she thought she deserved. She lowers her standards in a couple of seconds and blames it all on herself because what else could explain the rejection she did not see coming?

Rejections, polite or harsh, direct or indirect, make us wonder about our traits and habits. When we put ourselves out there for a guy only to be ignored and walked over by him, we wonder if something is wrong with us, if we went wrong somewhere in being the right girl. The answer to all of it is NO. No, your habits and traits are not to be doubted here. No, there is nothing wrong with you and no, you did not go wrong anywhere. If he took a different turn and looked over you, it is his decision to which he holds the right. As long as you are concerned, girl, you are worth the chase.

You were made exclusively, not according to a particular guy’s likes and dislikes. When a man notices your exclusiveness he will chase you and you will see why valuing yourself was the best favor you ever did yourself.

You will be like the golden watch among a heap of silver watches, a ruby among diamonds for the guy who sees something in you and for the guy who is welcoming a loss by looking over you, his vision was never good enough. You may not be the perfect woman every man wants to be with and you will have flaws that will make you stand out of the crowd but for the guy who will think it right to chase after you will see all the flaws as parts of you that are equally worth loving. He will make it clear to you that he considers having you an achievement and your presence lights up his world. He will make it clear when he chases you that you, with all your flaws, are worth the chase.

Everything happens for a reason. Our hearts break for a reason and people leave us for a reason. If one person sets us free, another catches on to the mission of getting our attention. It may not happen all too quickly and men certainly won’t stand in a queue for you but when there will be a man who is interested in you enough to chase you, he will come forth and make it clear. Never stoop too low to adjust for the man who no longer sees your worth; never let yourself believe that you are worth his divided attention and do not deserve more than he gives you. You deserve all the happiness in the world and you will only get it when you believe it. – Continue reading on the next page

You’re Not Easy

For the men who are ˜man enough’ to play with two or more hearts at once, you should have only one way to explain to them their mistake: quit. You should be steadfast when it comes to your self-righteousness and stubborn when it comes to standing up for something that is in your benefit. It is justified to be selfish as long as it is harmful to only the person who did wrong to you. When you allow a man to love another woman along with you, you are not only giving him the get-out-of-jail free card but also putting yourself in a situation where there is nothing but self-damage and low self-esteem for you.

You are not someone’s side-chick and you are certainly not easy.

By walking away from the man who did not value you enough to stick with you, you will be making it clear for the whole world that you are not easy and you do not settle for anything less than what you deserve. By bidding farewell to men who took you for granted and thought it justifiable to cheat on you by getting involved with other women, you will be telling the world that you know where you stand and what you deserve and not only is that attitude healthy for you but attractive too.

When the right time comes and the right man tries to test his luck on you, you will know, then, that all the men who treated you wrong deserved to be left. When the right man chases after you and you only, you will see why your decision to not settle for anything less than honesty and loyalty was the best decision you have ever made. You will be loved like never before and you will be given the respect you deserve.

When the right man comes forth, everything will fall into place and you will realize that when someone acknowledges the fact that you are one in a million, it feels magically beautiful. And most importantly, when the right man sees in you what no one ever saw and he chases you, you will realize that you were always worth the chase. He will tell you, one day, by his words and his actions that, girl, you were always worth the chase.