He isn’t going to want a fake or idealized version of you. He’s going to want the real you. He is going to want you to stay true to who you are. He will want to get to know the real you; and not some fake fantasy version of you.
9. Let him take care of you.
Allow him to take care of you. Yes, you are a strong and independent woman. And that’s one of the major reasons as to why he really likes you. But men still like to feel needed. So try to make him feel like he actually does hold value in your life by letting him do stuff for you every so often.
At the end of the day, you’re going to make it so much easier for other people to love you if you just learn to love yourself first. When you fall in love with yourself, you are going to be able to highlight the best aspects of your personality. It’s as if your unconsciously giving other people the permission to fall in love with you as well.