Love is actually something that is supposed to get rid of all the negativity and toxicity in the lives of people. That’s why it’s so coveted. So many of us have to go through so much just to get a chance at finding love with someone else. And even when we give it our all, it’s not always going to work out for us in the end.
You can love a person with all of the purity and sincerity in your heart and that still wouldn’t be enough to ensure the success of your relationship. You can exert as much effort into your love as you can and that might still not be enough.
Yes, it’s always painful whenever we get used by someone whether you are aware of it or not. But when it comes to the realms of romantic entanglement, it can really hurt on a much deeper and more profound level.
That is why you always want to be putting a stop to whatever foolishness might be taking place between you and another person. IF you know that someone is using you, then you need to break that connection right away. You need to be able to separate yourself from that person. You need to make sure that you are always looking out for yourself.
You want to keep yourself aware if anyone might be using you in a relationship for reasons other than love. That is why if you notice a lot of the signs that are listed on here in your own relationship, then you need to make sure that you do something about it.
1. He only ever talks to you about sex.
He only ever really talks to you about sex. And so, you know where his priorities lie in this relationship.
2. He doesn’t really introduce you to the important people in his life.
He doesn’t feel the need to introduce you to the important people in his life because he knows you won’t be sticking around for too long.
3. He never shells out cash for you in the relationship.
Not to say that you should demand that he always spend for you. But you expect him to shell out cash every now and then.
4. You get the sense that he’s using you.
Something deep down inside is just telling you that it’s off. You should always learn to listen to your instincts.