24 Things Women Wish Men Knew About Them

16. We like to snuggle more

Please be our snuggle bees for the rest of our lives because we have no idea what we’d do if we didn’t have you to comfort us. Also, you should be thankful of the fact that we really want to snuggle you. The day that we don’t ask you for snuggles anymore is the day that you should really start becoming more worried about the state of our relationship. Remember that a huge part of what makes a happy and healthy relationship is having a good sense of physical affection and intimacy between two people who love one another. If we really enjoy each other’s company, then that’s great.

That’s important. However, keep in mind that physical intimacy is truly what separates friends from being lovers. And part of being physically intimate with a partner is snuggling. You might find it annoying or overly clingy. And that might be true. But the way I see it, it’s better that we are overly intimate than if we weren’t intimate at all. So, the next time you think that it’s rather annoying of me to want to snuggle with you all of the time, think of how bad our relationship would be if there were no snuggles at all. You should never deny my efforts to be more intimate and affectionate with you. This is all for the betterment of our love and our relationship after all.

17. Take interest in our clothing, we want to make you look good

Please be our snuggle bees for the rest of our lives because we have no idea what we’d do if we didn’t have you to comfort us. Also, you should be thankful of the fact that we really want to snuggle you. The day that we don’t ask you for snuggles anymore is the day that you should really start becoming more worried about the state of our relationship. Remember that a huge part of what makes a happy and healthy relationship is having a good sense of physical affection and intimacy between two people who love one another. If we really enjoy each other’s company, then that’s great. That’s important.

However, keep in mind that physical intimacy is truly what separates friends from being lovers. And part of being physically intimate with a partner is snuggling. You might find it annoying or overly clingy. And that might be true. But the way I see it, it’s better that we are overly intimate than if we weren’t intimate at all. So, the next time you think that it’s rather annoying of me to want to snuggle with you all of the time, think of how bad our relationship would be if there were no snuggles at all. You should never deny my efforts to be more intimate and affectionate with you. This is all for the betterment of our love and our relationship after all.

18. Screw the cap back on

Seriously, screw the lid back on, on everything. We don’t expect things to fall out of their bottles when we pick them up and if they do it’s very annoying. But the greater point here is that you should be more responsible and mindful of your actions and their potential repercussions. Yes, when we’re together, you can always be assured of having someone who is always going to have your back no matter what. I’m going to try my best to pick up the scraps for whenever you drop the ball.

However, that doesn’t mean that you have the excuse of being selfish and absent-minded. Simple gestures like screwing the cap back on can go a really long way in easing the burden in my life as well. When you make it a habit of cleaning up after yourself, then that means that I don’t have to do so much work for the spots that you may have missed while doing so. I love you and I would be willing to go to the ends of the earth for you. But I need you to show that same kind of effort by staying mindful of how your actions affect me as well.

19. Don’t turn the lights on when we are sleeping

Once our sleep is gone it’s not coming back, someone is going to have to give us company. Enough said. Okay, so it might be selfish of me. We don’t necessarily go to bed at the same time every night. Sometimes, I’m going to fall asleep a lot earlier than you do. And that’s fine. I can understand why you would want to keep the lights on. There are still a few things that you want to do and you wouldn’t be able to do them without light. I completely understand in those instances as to why the light should remain on. However, when you’re about to go to bed, I need you to be the one who turns those lights off for the two of us.

Obviously, it would be completely unreasonable for me to have to be the one who wakes up and gets out of bed to shut the lights off. So, if you’re not going to be the one who does it, who else will? Again, this all goes back to the point of staying mindful of how your actions might impact me. It might seem like such a small and insignificant thing. But it’s a really big deal when you think about it. In fact, it’s a really serious matter because it’s going to tell me whether you think about my feelings or not.

20. Pick that phone up!

We only call you when we want to talk about something important. Sometimes listening to your voice is very important. So, pick up those calls! Okay, this might be an exaggeration. This might be an overreaction. Of course, we acknowledge that you’re going to be busy sometimes and that you aren’t always going to have the liberty to pick up your cellphone especially when you’re working or when you’re in a meeting. However, whenever you don’t want to pick your phone up or respond to a text message just because you’re annoyed by us, think of how that would make us feel.

When I call or text you, it’s only because there’s a message that I want to get across to you in that exact moment. Sometimes, that message can be important. Other times, it can just be me missing you randomly and wishing to hear your voice. Whatever the case, you should be willing to indulge me if you have the time to do so. Don’t shut me out just because you’re tired of hearing my voice. Be thankful that you still have a girl who so desperately wants to hear yours all of the time in spite of the length of your relationship. One day, if you’re not careful, the phone may not ring anymore. And you’ll miss all of those opportunities wherein you could have picked up the phone.

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  1. Men need to make a woman feel like he puts her first before his family and friends. He needs to make sure she feels he has her back and they are a team. Right or wrong, he should stand by her side, not anyone else’s side especially his family. Defend her and suport her. If her disagrees with her, talk about it in private but, infront of everyone else have her back.