A lot of women will assume that men are purely sexual creatures who just want to have sex all of the time. And that would be very wrong and unfair. Men are more than just sexual creatures. They have depths within them. And yes, they might enjoy sex more than women. But that doesn’t mean that that is all that they would think about at any given time.
But not a lot of women believe this. Even women in relationships would just naturally assume that their men are always going to be up for sex. But that isn’t necessarily going to be the case. That’s why whenever women will get rejected by their men when they propose sex, they often get shocked and surprised. They don’t think it would ever be possible for a man to refuse sex. And yet, here they are.
You might be one of those women. And you might think that your man no longer loves you because he has refused sex. You might think that the spark in your relationship is dying. You might think that the passion between the two of you is diminishing. You are so worried about the state of your relationship. You desperately want to fix everything but you don’t know where to start.
Just because he refused your sex doesn’t mean that he has fallen out of love with you. There are many reasons why a man would refuse woman sex. And it doesn’t always have to mean that he doesn’t like you anymore. Before you jump into any conclusions, you might want to familiarize yourself with the other possibilities as well.
Here are a few other reasons as to why a man might deny sex.
1. He has low testosterone.
It might be biological as well. Take note that a man’s libido levels can decrease every once in a while. And whenever that happens, he might just not be in the mood for sex. It happens sometimes and it might not even be your own fault.
2. He has performance anxiety.
He might just be having performance anxiety. Don’t you make the mistake of believing that men are above having anxieties and insecurities? There are a lot of men out there who are insecure about how they look or are anxious about how they might perform in the bedroom.
These men might deny you sex as a result of all the anxiety and insecurity that they are feeling. He might just be dealing with his own issues and it might not have anything to do with you.
3. He has resorted to being self-sufficient.
The good old art of masturbation. A lot of men do it. And they won’t be shy about it either. Sometimes, having sex can really take a lot out of a guy in a physical sense. That’s why some men are going to resort to masturbation.
It can be very easy and convenient for men to grab a hold of various stimuli and actually go to work. And once men are being satisfied in that aspect, then it’s possible that they won’t feel the need to have sex anymore.
4. He doesn’t feel like his desires are being reciprocated.
He doesn’t feel like his desires are being reciprocated. You might not think much of the fact that he is always the one propositioning you. But it can sting a little bit whenever the desire is not reciprocated.
A man is still going to want to feel wanted in a relationship. That’s why you should make it a point to proposition him every once in a while as well. Let him know that you want his body just as much as he wants yours.
5. He is having an affair with someone else.
Some men are unfaithful. Some men get into relationships with other women. And when that’s the case, it’s an unfortunate affair.
Sometimes, men get into affairs just because they feel like they aren’t getting what they need out of their real relationships. Sometimes, men get into affairs just because of a series of wrong decisions. Whatever the case, affairs can fundamentally alter the entire dynamic of a relationship – especially your sexual life.
6. He just isn’t attracted to you anymore.
This might be the number one worst case scenario that you would ever find yourself in. Perhaps it’s just true that your man really has lost his attraction towards you. Maybe you just don’t turn him on anymore.
Maybe you just no longer appeal to him in a sensual capacity. It’s unfortunate but it happens in relationships a lot. When this is the case, you can try to win him back. But if it just can’t be helped, then you’re going to just to have to cut each other loose.