Nobody wants to waste time on a relationship that won’t work out. Spending years with someone who doesn’t want the same things can be heartbreaking. There are signs you can watch for, but many people miss them.
1. They won’t give you a straight answer
When you talk about marriage, they avoid the topic or give unclear answers. It’s like trying to catch a slippery fish – really frustrating and confusing. You deserve someone who can openly share their feelings and plans with you. Communication is vital in a relationship, so find someone who can be honest and straightforward with you.
2. They won’t be “official”
You’ve been together for a long time, but your partner still hesitates to call you a couple officially. They enjoy being with you but avoid committing to the relationship label. It’s important to think about where you stand in their life and whether you both want the same things for the future. Honest conversations can bring clarity and help you make decisions that are right for you.
3. You want different things
Do you want to have kids, but your partner doesn’t? Do you believe in being in a committed relationship, while your partner prefers having multiple relationships? These differences show that marriage might not be in your near future. It’s better to find someone who shares your goals and beliefs for a better match.
4. They don’t “believe in marriage”
Some people have personal reasons for not believing in marriage, and that’s okay. But if their reasons sound more like an excuse to avoid commitment, it’s essential to trust your feelings and consider if you both want the same things in life. Take some time to think about your future and what you truly desire in a relationship.
5. They keep you at a distance from their family and close friends
Meeting the important people in their life is a significant step in a relationship. But if your partner refuses to introduce you to their close friends and family, it makes you wonder about their level of commitment and what they see for your future as a couple. It’s essential to talk openly about your feelings and expectations to ensure you’re on the same page.
6. They don’t really care about your future plans
When you share your dreams and goals, they don’t seem interested or brush them off. In a committed relationship, your partner should be supportive and excited about your aspirations. It’s essential to have someone who cheers you on and believes in your dreams. If they are not showing that support, it’s worth considering if you’re on the same page about your future together.
7. You feel desperate and pathetic
Trying too hard to make them marry you or sacrificing your values to keep them can hurt how you feel about yourself. A good relationship should make you feel happy and respected, not desperate and unsure. Remember, you deserve to be with someone who loves and appreciates you just the way you are.
Don’t miss these telling signs about your partner’s intentions. Have you noticed any of these in your relationship? We’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences!
After 14 years of promising to marry me, I’m done. This article was spot on for my situation. Thank you.