4. Real men can control themselves
Real men have enough will power to control themselves. Being a “one-woman-man” is not a thing of the past. Real men don’t have the urge to be physical with someone else because they’re happy enough with their partners. Real men know that the value of lust is not more than love and lust go away after a while but love stays.
5. Real men can’t think of hurting their partners
Like I talk in the beginning, real men respect their partners. They can never think of intentionally hurting their partners. When someone cheats, they actually break the person who was in love with them. They break every fiber of trust their partners had in them and they cause a lot of trauma. Real men can never think of making their partners go through so much negativity and darkness and can never hurt their partners by being with someone else behind their backs.
6. Real men can’t juggle
I’ve seen a lot of guys who juggle two women at once, I don’t get how they do it. It’s emotionally impossible for me to imagine being with two girls at once, to be with two women, and keep them in the dark. How can people play with someone’s feelings like that? To make each partner think they truly love them while telling the other partner the very same thing? This is something real men can’t do, they just can’t and won’t juggle. They’re happy with one woman who loves them.
7. Real men have the power to break up
One of the reasons why people cheat is when they aren’t happy with their partners and they want to see other people. And most of the time, they are too scared to break up. This is what real men don’t do, real men know when it’s time to break up with someone when things aren’t going well. They know that it’s much better to leave someone than to cheat on them or to lie to them, it’s another way of showing them respect by being completely honest with them.
8. Real men know what’s more important in life
The emotions, the feelings, the love, the memories, there are so many things that matter in life and are important. Real men know the importance of these things and know that staying loyal with their partners is more important than to go look for other people to have flings with. We are emotional, we cry, we laugh, we don’t have any ulterior motives in our minds, we just want to enjoy our lives with the people we love.
Any real men out there?
How many real men are reading this article? Or how many women can agree to this? Let me know in the comments below. And as always, stay blessed and keep the love alive!
Thank you for this
I am a real man and it’s respect for the woman I love that keeps me from ever being disrespectful to her. I chose her , told her I love her always in my heart and arms I will protect her. Love is not a pretend thing,
I have recently separated from a man that I truly love and found out that he has been lying to me for half of our 30 year marriage. I am devastated and feel so humiliated and destroyed by his betrayal. I don’t understand how he was able to live such a duplicitous life for so long and still manipulate me to believe he loved me. I made serious life decisions based on his lies that wasn’t aware of. How can a human being do that to another human being, let alone the person you claim to love?
I just don’t understand.
It’s generally known that more men cheat than women. I thought that too at one point.
Now that I’m older I just think that women are less likely to get caught cheating.