8 toxic people you should start the new year without
2020 – no toxic people allowed.
2020 is here; it’s a whole new year filled with exciting new opportunities and goals to be achieved. Start your year off with as much positivity as you can, this means that you need to leave certain people behind, certain “Toxic” people who will do nothing more but bring you down in your happiness-filled new year.
Here are the eight most common toxic people you should leave behind, for your own sake, let’s begin.
8. People who lie to you
2020 should be a more positive year; it should be free from drama and lies and deception. Free yourself from people who can’t seem to be honest with you for too long. The sort of people who have to lie to you to be okay with you.
The people who eventually hurt you a lot because their lies travel around and come to you ultimately, do you need that kind of negative energy this year? No, you don’t. You need positive people, real people, pure people, people who care about you enough to never lie to you.
7. People who want to change you
Let’s make 2020 about YOU, it’s going to be the year of intense self-improvement! Free yourself from people who try turning you into someone else, people who either envy your personality for whatever reason or dislike your individuality because they’re just brought up that way, to hate everyone around them.
Be around people who love you the way you are, who enhance you, who empower you, who push you forward in your way to success without changing a thing about you.
6. People who talk behind your back
As I said, 2020 isn’t going to be the year of drama and deception. Rid yourself of the people who love to talk behind your back. The two-faced characters who adore you when you’re there, but hate you much when you’re not. Do you need such people in your life anymore? You need people who are straightforward and can say it like it is, people who can speak from the heart without the fear of anyone watching.
5. People who want to use you
I’ve said this before, and I’ll repeat it, bad people are everywhere in the world, they may even be in your own company without you knowing it. You need to get rid of the people who want to use you, who have you in their lives just because you fulfill the purpose of their own selfish needs, and when they’re done, they’ll throw you away without even the slightest of explanations. Be with people who would love to be around you, not because of something that you could do for them, but because they love being around you.
4. People who overthink of themselves
Leave the egotistical people behind as well, people who believe they are so much better than everyone. Surround yourself with kind and humble people as you step into your new year and a new chapter of your life, don’t let things like “ego” get in the way of your happiness and keep such people far away from your new year.
Your company should consist of people who love being with you no matter what. Who is with you through thick and thin, who won’t let go of you if you’re going through a rough patch in life. Leave the people behind who run away at first sight of sorrow, who can’t empathize with you, and have a tough time being emotional because they’re just not used to being sensitive.
2. People who keep reminding you of the past
Some people are so full of negativity that they have nothing better to do but tell you of the past so that you could be sad again. They can’t see you too happy, so they quickly inform you of the gloomy old days you came out of and bring you back into that zone, please leave such people behind.
1. Your exes
All of your exes, I don’t care if you guys are “friends,” you guys can’t be friends! Start your new year, fresh! With the one person you love, don’t bring in the drama and the negativity that exes bring. It’s just wrong. Leave them behind. Say goodbye to them, one last time, and move on with your life altogether, because trust me if you still talk to them, even as a friend, you haven’t moved on yet.
Have your say
Happy new year, guys! It’s been fantastic writing for you all. I hope 2020 is more unusual for us. Add your thoughts in the comments below. As always, guys, stay blessed and keep the love alive! To a fantastic new year! Cheers!