5. They seem to only ever get animated with you when they want to have sex.
Another way you can tell that a person is really using you is when they only want to be with you when you have sex. In this case, they are only using you for your body and whatever sexual pleasure they can derive from you.
6. They don’t make an effort to be nice to your friends.
If a person were truly invested in being in a relationship with you, they would also make it a point to be nice to your friends. But if they are refusing to make that effort, then they really aren’t serious about being with you at all.
7. They don’t really want to define the relationship with you.
A non-committal partner is not a real romantic partner at all. If you notice that they are constantly avoiding talks of defining the relationship, then that may mean they’re not really interested in attaching themselves to you in the way that you want.
8. They look to you whenever they need a quick ego boost.
In this case, they are only using you as a means to validate themselves. They see you as someone who can give them a little confidence booster when they are feeling down. It gets really obvious whenever they desperately start to try and fish for compliments from you.
9. They ask you for a lot of favors but they refuse to do anything for you.
They are using you for your kindness and generosity. They know they can get a lot out of you by asking nicely, but they would never be willing to return the favor themselves. They are only interested in what they can get you to do for them.
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Good article. I have now learned to keep my head and my heart in different places and let them do their jobs.
My ex and i have a 3 yr relationship . And then since september he gets cold of me . He never often chats me .then i discover that he flirtings with another girl. We never had dates i thought he loves me but im wrong
Ive been into this relationships for almost 5 years and it’s hard to step back because I’m willing to give him a lot of chances just to find out that he’s still cheating on me and I know it…and everytime he gives me an update on what his doing I know that he’s only lying…I accept all of it because I love him so much…and then one day,I saw some chats and I decided to moved away..far from him and I never even talk to him and gone…is it the right thing to do???