7. He pressures you into doing things that you’re not comfortable with doing.
He doesn’t really give a damn about your feelings. He doesn’t care about making you feel comfortable. He’s only concerned with what we can get out of you and the relationship. He’s only interested in his personal gains.
8. He never makes you feel like you can trust him.
You can never really rely on him – and it’s because he designed it to be that way. He doesn’t want to feel like he owes you anything. He doesn’t want to be responsible for you. he doesn’t want you to be dependent on him.
9. He has tendencies of getting aggressive and violent.
He is controlling. And when he feels like he’s losing control of you and the relationship, then he acts out. He gets aggressive. He gets violent. And that’s definitely a bad sign. He doesn’t love you. He thinks he owns you.
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It’s so sad that my partner of 5 years has 8/9 of those signs and we have two daughters (4&2) and we’ve been engaged for 4 years. And now he doesn’t even talk about marriage anymore. ☹
Sounds about right..you hit that square on….Sad and it’s hard because we can’t help who we fall in love with really…when we are conned the feelings are still very real for us.