There is this very popular misconception about how women tend to be the ones who are always so crazy about pursuing and finding love in their lives. There is this really weird stereotype that is attached to women that they tend to be the ones who are so quick to go all in when it comes to love and romance. It’s often said that women are the ones who are so quick to get duped into falling in love because of their desperation to find love in their lives. And on the other side of the spectrum, men are often accused of being the ones who are always so emotionally bankrupt and empty. They are believed to be the colder, harder, and more distant gender.
But if you’re perceptive enough and if you have substantial experience in relationships yourself, then you know that there is no definitive truth to the ideas that have been mentioned here so far. And science is going to be on your side for this. In fact, science is going to reveal a lot of potential surprises; and they’re going to be listed here in this article.
The truth, as proven by studies, is that women tend to be the one who have better command of their feelings and emotions. Women tend to be the ones who are so calm and collected. They tend to be the ones who are able to be discreet about how they feel. And on the other hand, men are proven to be the ones who act like bumbling idiots whenever they fall in love. It’s the men who are the ones who become desperate whenever they develop feelings of passion and romance. It has also been proven that men are the ones who tend to fall in love first in a relationship; and when they fall in love, they do so immensely.
In a recent survey, when asked how quickly they were likely to admit “I love you” in a relationship, it was shown that men were prone to saying it much faster than their women counterparts. Men are quick to declare their love for a woman they are in a relationship with after a few weeks. Women can sometimes take a few months before they can declare their love for their male partners.
Now, given that those are the facts. It begs to ask the question: why? Why are men the ones who fall in love faster? Why is it that women are he ones who have better control of their feelings and emotions? How are women more composed when it comes to love and romance? Why are men so desperate when it comes to gaining women’s affections and love?
Well, as it turns out, there are some fairly simple answers to these questions. Here are a few logical reasons as to why men tend to be the ones who fall in love quicker and more intensely – especially when compared to women.
1. They have spent most of their lives suppressing their feelings and emotions.
Boys are always taught to suppress their feelings and emotions because they convey weakness. They are often told that only women are the ones who get too touchy and feely all of the time. And when they keep their emotions bottled up for so long, they are bound to explode some time.
2. They are much more territorial than women are.
Men are just natural protectors. And they tend to be very protective of what they consider to be their property; even their relationships. They can become very territorial of their relationships to the point that they would do whatever they can to preserve them. And also, they would act in a hostile manner towards threats.
3. Men don’t tend to have their feelings questioned much.
Men are just always allowed to feel however they want to feel. Women are often told they are crazy for how they feel, but men don’t have to deal with that kind of stigma. They can just feel however they want without fear of criticism or backlash.
4. They rarely ever experience deep and intimate emotional connections.
And so whenever they do get a chance to have a deep and intimate connection with someone, they don’t hold back. They give it their all.
Of course, these are only a few reasons. And there are many factors that go into love after all. It’s always going to be a complex and complicated game. To add on to that, all of us are going to have different experiences and approaches to love and relationships. It can be very hard to generalize for all people of both genders. At the end of the day, you are the one who is going to get to define your own journey; you are the one who gets to write your love story. You are always going to get to control how you manifest and channel your feelings when it comes to love and romance.