They are playing that new Adele record virtually on repeat and it’s driving everyone around them nuts.
Okay. It’s understandable. There are very few things that are nice about getting your heartbroken. It’s a very traumatic ordeal and you would almost never want to wish it on your worst enemy. We have all had our brushes with heartbreak in some shape or form throughout the course of our lives. Maybe we used to be caught in a very long relationship with someone that ended abruptly. Perhaps you have found yourself crushing on someone for the longest time only to find out that that person has fallen in love with someone else. Or maybe you have a couple of friends who have had their hearts broken and you saw what it did to them.
There are just too many ways to count how a heart can break, and there’s no way anyone can stay immune from it. As human beings, we are all prone to heartbreak and none of us are protected. And when heartbreak comes at you, you are left feeling defenseless and disoriented. You don’t know what to do about it and you don’t know how to move on from it. You would think that it would be easier to deal with the more you’ve experienced it, but it doesn’t ever get any easier. It just gets harder and harder every single time. In the days of our youth, a lot of us both men and women alike are guilty of getting caught up in those romantic movies and fairytale stories. So we get a vague idea of what it means to fall in love and to become heartbroken.
But there is nothing in the world that could possibly prepare you for the kind of pain and anguish that heartbreak brings with it. Of course, you can expect to find solace in your friends and your family when heartbreak comes knocking but it’s never going to be enough. Not even all the chocolates, ice cream, and pizza in the world will be enough to help distract you from the pain that you’re feeling. Not even all the alcohol in your local bar will be enough to drown out all of the sorrows within you. Sometimes, pain just demands to be felt and that’s the kind of pain that comes with heartbreak. It demands to be felt. We all deal with this grief in our own very specific ways. Some of us handle it a lot better than others.
For those who are lucky enough, moving on and getting over doesn’t have to be complicated. For them, the act of moving on is a painstaking process, but it doesn’t always have to be an outrageously messy one. But for those who aren’t so lucky, dealing with heartbreak isn’t always going to be a simple process. As much as we all want to be okay in the end, it takes others a very long time before they are okay.
So who are these people exactly? Who are those who are so unlucky to not be able to bear the pain of heartbreak as well as others do? For the answer, you can turn to the Zodiac signs. There are some very specific Zodiac signs who just don’t deal with heartbreak well at all and here they are:
You are a very emotional person as is and these emotions intensify whenever you get heartbroken. As an Aries, you have a tendency to let your emotions get the best of you a lot of the time. Sometimes, negative feelings can even translate to violence on your part and you have to be careful when that happens. You can also read our very famous articles on how to love an Aries and 12 Things You Need To Know About An Aries.
You do not deal with heartbreak well because you do not deal with sadness well. You are a very sensitive person despite your stubbornness as a Taurus. You easily get hurt, and when you do, it forever taints your view of the world and of human nature. Others call you overdramatic but it’s just the way that you are. You also tend to lash out at your friends and you make it difficult for anyone to help you. You can also read our another piece on 7 things that make Taurus the most romantic partner ever.
More than anything else during a heartbreak, you are going to seek a sense of comfort and perfection in things that are familiar to you. And so you will start to resort back into your naturally controlling self. You hate it that the breakup was beyond your control, and so you will try to overcompensate by controlling other aspects of your life this can also mean you trying to control and manipulate your friends. If you’re planning on dating a Scorpio then you should know the 15 Brutally Honest things about Scorpios.
Like an Aries, you have much difficulty when it comes to trying to control your emotions. And the worst part is, you don’t care about anyone who gets caught in the cross hairs of your emotional outbreaks. You wouldn’t care how your coping mechanisms would impact the people around you because you are too engrossed in your own sadness to be thinking of others. Also read, 10 Things to Remember While Loving a Capricorn and if you are in a relationship with a Capricorn read, 10 ways to make a strong relationship with a Capricorn!
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