If you’re a guy who is particularly having a very difficult time trying to connect with a woman, then maybe you are guilty of a few of these things.
Women can be such a mystery. That’s why it’s a struggle for a lot of men to actually connect with a woman on an emotional and psychological level. Both genders tend to operate on separate wavelengths and that can cause either great synergy or great disaster. Fortunately for men, there are some universal standards that hold true to most women. There are some characteristics that they all share together especially when it comes to their taste in men.
If you’re a guy who is particularly having a very difficult time trying to connect with a woman, then maybe you are guilty of a few of these things. Take this article as a stepping stone for you to up your game with the ladies. If you find yourself being guilty of some of the items on this list, then you need to make the necessary adjustments if you want to find luck in your love life. Here are the 10 things about men that most women tend to find very unattractive.
1. Men who take their fitness regimen too seriously.
Now this may seem a little counterintuitive, but it gets a little more complicated than that. Yes, women love it when men take care of their bodies by eating healthy and working out. However, it gets weird whenever a man forgets to live his life because he’s practically living at the gym already. A couple of hours’ worth of working out each day should be enough. Any time more than that might be pushing the envelope a little bit.
2. Men who have limited ambition and motivation.
This shouldn’t be shocking news to anyone. Women like men who are ambitious and have the necessary drive to excel in life. Any lady wouldn’t want to be attached to a man who is just coasting through life without any real ambition. A real man has goals and dreams to go along with serious work ethic and dedication.
3. Men who take metrosexuality to the next level.
Again, this may seem a little counterintuitive, but there’s really more to it than meets the eye. Women love it when a man is able to take care of himself. A smart woman will always appreciate a man who puts effort into his grooming and his looks. However, when a man starts taking longer showers and prep times than a woman, that could be cause for concern.– Continue reading on the next page
4. Men who don’t put effort into choosing what to wear.
Men, you should always be conscious of how you look especially when you’re out in public with your girl. A woman wants you to always look presentable, because she’s probably going to exert as much effort to look good by your side also. If you’re really clueless with regards to fashion, then start reading up on blogs or ask her for advice with your clothes.
5. Men who are financially irresponsible.
A man who doesn’t know how to value his money is practically a child. Every man should develop a sense of financial responsibility as they grow older. It would be irresponsible for any woman to get with a man who doesn’t know how to take care of money. This trait intensifies in importance as your relationship gets more serious and you grow to become adults.
6. Men who are flirting machines.
Stop flirting with every woman that you see on the streets. It can be a big turn-off to the girls who are actually interested in you. If you’re practically ogling any woman with legs, then you’re just asking for trouble. Stop being so desperate to put your male libido on display. Be subtle in your courtship of women. Otherwise, you’ll end up looking like a douche-bag.
7. Men who are too narcissistic.
Stop being so conceited. Remember that Narcissus fell into a lake and died because he was too obsessed with his own reflection. You should start developing a sense of thoughtfulness and sensitivity. Be more mindful of others and how they feel. Not everything in life is going to be about you and you must learn that early on. Nobody likes a diva.– Continue reading on the next page
8. Men who get jealous and possessive.
It’s okay to get playfully jealous whenever you’re interested in a girl. That’s part of human nature. However, it’s a different thing entirely when you act on your jealousy. You’re not entitled to anything or any person for that matter. Especially if you aren’t in an official relationship yet, there’s no point in acting jealous or possessive at all.
9. Men who don’t understand what it means to be a gentleman.
Be chivalrous at all times. Show women that the culture of gentlemanly class has not died and that you are its champion. You should always be willing to treat your women like a queen. Be as strong and as dedicated as a knight in shining armor.
10. Men who can’t make women laugh.
Learn how to have a sense of humor. A lot of women will tell you that having a boyfriend who can make them laugh is always going to be a priority when selecting a potential mate. If you can’t make your girl happy, then you’re going to have problems.
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Men, have you had to go through this in your life? Let me know in the comments below!