The truth is that all you want is for people to like you and for you to like them. Thus, when someone uses you and breaks your trust, you become inconsolable.Hence, what you need to do is realise that there will be good people and that there will be bad people. You can’t win everyone over. If you give it your all and they don’t then don’t be hurt by it. Instead, realise that they weren’t worth it.
5. Leo (July 23rd – August 22nd)
The king of the jungle, the lion. This Zodiac sign has a constant need to be praised and appreciated. Which, don’t get me wrong, isn’t vain at all (sometimes), but it can result in a lack of self-confidence. How? Well, you basically surround yourself with people who boost your confidence, but in cases where they aren’t there anymore, you realise that you can’t properly function.
Hence, you need to cut out your need for other people’s opinion of you. You are your own person with some amazing features and some flaws. You know yourself better than anyone else and, at the end of the day, it’s what you think of yourself that matters the most.
6. Virgo (August 23rd – September 22nd)
A virgo is of the belief that everything has to be planned and that every unplanned event is a disaster. Thus, if even a single detail goes against plan, they’ll go insane! Nothing in life can be perfect to every last detail. Sometimes you just need to let nature take its course and sit back and relax.
You can’t plan or take charge of everything in your life. Something’s just happen because they were destined to happen. This is nothing to feel bad about.Hence, you need to realise the fact that there are other unaccounted for factors which can change your vision of the future. Things might go wrong or they might not, but one thing’s for sure, it won’t be your fault. You did everything you could. If it didn’t happen, it just didn’t happen. Let it go.
7. Libra (September 23rd – October 22nd)
What might be perceived as a good trait, the fact that a libra will be so involved in another person’s life is actually quite draining. They take on problems which aren’t their own. Now, most people will help the other person out with their problems. However, a libra gets so involved that they forget that these aren’t even their problems to begin with!
Sometimes you just need to think about yourself. I’m not telling you not to care about other people, I’m just telling you to take care of yourself as well. Help people out as much as you can, but if you can’t then it’s alright. Hence, you need to realise that people live separate lives. Your life or your problems can not become someone else’s. Sure they can TRY to understand, but they or you can never fully understand.
8. Scorpio (October 23rd – November 22nd)
A Scorpio will fight to the death to prove that they’re right. Even if the argument is seemingly over, a Scorpio will stay think of more comebacks to say. In their minds, their opinions are all accurate and only those people are smart who share their views. It’s this stubborn attitude of theirs which leads to many strains in their relationships.