When someone is bored, it’s because they aren’t involved enough in the present. This issue can be deep-rooted, or it could also be because of a recent argument. It’s a subjective topic, so I’m going to be as descriptive as possible. When we are bored, how does it feel? It feels empty, unfamiliar, uncomfortable. It’s all sorts of harmful and annoying.
When a girl says she’s bored of you, it’s not something to be taken lightly. It means she is either upset or annoyed at something you did. This needs to be discussed in detail. Ask her what made her angry, if it’s something you did. Maybe it was unintentional, and you didn’t realize it. If it was a mistake, apologize and make up for the mistake. Life is simple, as long as you’re keeping things simple.
Don’t lie about it. One lie leads to another lie, and it’s a neverending and steep road throughout. If she’s bored, get to the bottom of things and have a meaningful conversation about your feelings and how her actions affect you as much as yours affect her. Be open and vocal, be transparent, and be realistic in your expectations.
When two people are in a relationship, it’s not going to be smooth sailing 24/7. Two individuals are bound to have disagreements; that’s how we grow and come closer as a couple. It’s a constant give and take of emotions and effort. When one partner is upset, it falls on the other partner to make things right and vice versa. Mutual growth is essential here, don’t think about yourself, think about the two of you.
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