Sometimes, you just want a man who can effectively communicate his feelings towards you; but you aren’t always going to be able to get that man. You’re not always going to be able to find yourself a guy who is going to be able to speak his heart’s song to you. And that’s fine. In fact, a vast majority of men in the world are largely incapable of communicating their feelings; of articulating their emotions. So, if you think you have substantial difficulty reading your man’s emotions, don’t worry so much. You aren’t alone. There are countless girls in the same position as you.
However, just because it’s normal doesn’t mean that it’s good. You don’t want to be in the dark when it comes to your man’s feelings. You don’t want to fall in love with a guy if you’re not sure about whether he feels the same way or not. You’re going to want to be with a man who you KNOW is crazy about you as well. You want to invest your feelings in a guy who is actually worth investing in. And you need that reassurance from him; and he’s just not giving it to you.
But don’t fret. Just because he isn’t telling you that he’s in love with you doesn’t mean that he isn’t. Keep in mind that men are more of physical communicators than they are verbal ones. And you need to learn how to read between the lines. Learn to read how he ACTS whenever he’s around you more than just what he’s saying. There are a lot of guys who would be so quick to tell you that they love you even though they don’t even mean it. They don’t back it up with real actions.
And if you’re really interested in knowing whether a guy is madly in love with you, you just have to be able to read the signs. Look into his behavior; because at this point, what he does in the relationship is more important than what he says.
1. He puts your happiness and needs above his own.
He isn’t afraid to put your needs and your personal happiness ahead of his own. He is always willing to make you happy. He is always looking for ways to make your life easier and more convenient – even if that means putting himself in a state of inconvenience.
2. He really makes time for you.
We all know that time is the single most valuable thing that we could ever share with another person. It’s something that once given, can never be taken back. And so, you can always consider it a good sign that he’s willing to spend a lot of his time on you. It proves that you’re important to him.
3. He supports you in the pursuit of your dreams.
A man who wants to be in a relationship might want to control the way that you live your life. But that isn’t love. It’s only true love if you’re with a man who is really going to support and motivate you to be better. He’s a guy who nudges you towards your dreams; not someone who tells you how to dream.
4. He expresses his curiosity in your life.
He really wants to get to know you the best way that he can. And that’s why he ends up asking you a lot of questions about your passions, interests, thoughts, and opinions. He is always going to make you feel like you are listened to.
5. He opens up about himself in ways that he doesn’t with other people.
He really lets you in. He might not be telling you that he loves you. But he’s definitely willing to open up new depths of his life with you.
6. He introduces you to his friends and family.
He really integrates you into his life. He really wants you to meet all of the important people in his life. Why? Because you’re turning out to be one of the most important people in his life as well. Ad he wants to be able to expose you to his world.
7. He talks about a future for your relationship.
He doesn’t see whatever you have as some mere fling or hookup. He’s not interested in just a casual arrangement between the two of you. He’s really in it for the long haul.
8. He shows a willingness to compromise.
He loves you so much that he’s willing to compromise some fundamental aspects of his life just so he is able to accommodate you into his world.
9. He always laughs more whenever he’s with you.
You just generally make him happier and feel more at ease. He loves just how happy and light you are able to make him feel. Your mere presence in his life is already enough to really uplift his mood in ways that no one else really can.