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Mother of 10 Boys Unexpectedly Dies After Giving Birth to Her First Daughter

Abigail Renee Abigail Renee | March 19, 2022 | 3 min read

This harrowing incident took place back in November 2020. It’s about a family from Livingston, Texas, USA, who went through a traumatizing ordeal when the family’s mom unexpectedly passed away a few days after giving birth to her first daughter. In those precious and fleeting moments, the mother shares daughter’s final moments filled with love and heartache. Family members surrounded them, offering their support and documenting the bittersweet occasion, ensuring that the baby’s story would be forever remembered. As the sun set, the memories of laughter and joy intertwined with sorrow, leaving an indelible mark on their hearts.

Spencer Harlow & Sonya Harlow were a happily married couple who shared ten boys – some of whom were from past marriages. Sonya, 39-years-old, had been praying for a daughter to arrive and become a part of their big, happy family. On November 4th, 2020, Sonya finally gave birth to her first baby girl – Eliyanah.

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But things took an unfortunate turn when the happy mother couldn’t even spend more than eleven days with her newborn baby girl.

Sonya unexpectedly passed away on November 16th, 2020 – a tragic and traumatizing event for Spencer and their eleven children.

While talking to Bluebonnet News, Spencer Harlow talked about how Sonya woke him up at 2 am and looked like she was in pain. He said:

“I rolled over and could see she was dying,”

“We did CPR on her until the paramedics arrived, but she had flatlined by then. It was too late.”

They think Sonya passed away because of postpartum issues because she suffered from high blood pressure throughout her pregnancy. Spencer, a broken husband, told Bluebonnet News how amazing Sonya was:

“She was the most beautiful woman I’ve ever known. She was so vibrant and full of life. She was loving, kind, and caring,”

Sonya’s best friend, Nancy Leger Davie, created a GoFundMe for the family, which received over $43,000 in donations to help them with funeral expenses and help Spencer raise his eleven children alone.

Their GoFundMe has stopped accepting new donations since it reached its goal instantly. Nancy Leger Davie wrote to thank everyone on their GoFundMe page:

“WOW! As her best friend, I am literally speechless and in tears! We have by far reached our goal to cover expenses. The burial plot/opening and closing, funeral, flowers and headstone will be able to be paid in full. Any and all funds that are collected after all expenses are paid, is being collected by me and being paid directly to her husband Spencer Harlow. It will be used to care for their children.”

“Thank you so very much for your generosity and I pray nothing but blessings over everyone whether you donated, prayed or just shared the go fund me!”

Our deepest condolences go out to the Harlow family and their friends. We hope Spencer Harlow finds the strength and power to continue Sonya’s legacy happily.

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Sources:

Nancy Leger Davie’s GoFundMe Page

Images & Featured Image via Nancy Leger Davie’s GoFundMe Page


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James · March 20, 2022

I would like to send my heartfelt condolences to Spencer Harlow his children and his family.such a tragic end to a beautiful story of a loving couple joyed with delight over the birth of their daughter. Rip and God bless sonya xxx

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Spencer Harlow · March 23, 2022

Thank you James. I’m thankful for all the prayers and support. Lord knows we need them. My wife was the most beautiful woman I’ve ever known. She was the light in our world. A beautiful mother, wife, best friend….a Godly woman….a virtuous woman….I miss her dearly and always will until we meet again.

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    Stefani · April 30, 2022

    God bless you and your family Spencer!

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Rosaline Wainscoat · April 30, 2022

So unbelievable sad and heartbreaking. Praying that God will be with the family and comfort them all!

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Abigail Renee is a writer based in New York with a background in psychology and over five years of experience covering relationships, love, and personal growth. She is known for her candid, thoughtful perspective on the complexities of modern relationships, and believes that honest conversation is the foundation of any meaningful connection. When she is not writing, she is exploring new restaurants, listening to Coldplay, or rewatching her favourite sitcoms from the 2000s.